Crime and Punishment

In the first experience, it seems that everything was very positive. They both enjoyed the party, had a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant and shared a special moment. The communication and behavior was respectful and affectionate, which made the date a fantastic experience. 

On the other hand, in the second experience, there seemed to be a lack of consideration and respect on the part of the other person. There was not a proper choice of restaurant, financial issues were present, and communication was unclear. This experience was uncomfortable and disappointing, and it is understandable that you were not comfortable with the idea of another date.

Ultimately, what is important in dating and relationships is open and honest communication, mutual respect and empathy. Everyone has their own expectations and desires in a date, and it is critical that both parties communicate clearly and respect each other's boundaries and preferences.